A soft and effortless cotton midi is perfect for me!
Do you ever find a dress or top or some article of clothing that you know without even trying it on is totally you? That is exactly how I feel about THIS dress. I’ve literally worn this dress 10x since I purchased it back in April {it’s Leith & was under $50!} but surprisingly enough, I never photographed it. The midi is the softest cotton material ever and the length is super flattering. I initially wore it for Cassidy’s Bridal Shower but after playing hostess all day in it, I knew it’d get a ton of wear. This slate-y, steel-ish blue is such a unique color too and it paired perfectly with neutral accessories and a pop of pink for an early dinner date with Kyle. Of course that is just my luck since I can’t find it online anywhere for you all to buy and enjoy as much as I do. Sorrrrrrry! I did find some super similar options here, here and here though! But this leads me to share two pretty big things with y’all today…one is much more superficial than the other, but both I’m proud to say I’m doing. I’ll start with the lighter topic since it is Monday and all! 😉
No shopping in August.
That’s right. I, Kristin Nicole Kruse, will not be shopping during the month of August. I don’t know why I decided to commit myself to that but after the major damage I did during the Nordstrom sale, I knew my closet {and our wallet!} needed a break. Last night I did a purge and have over 50 items in my ‘needs to go pile.’ That sounds like a ton of clothes/shoes/bags but unfortunately I still have WAY TOO MUCH STUFF. So this girl is not spending any money on clothes, shoes, accessories or handbags for the 31 days of August. A little self control better go a long way because I already see new things I want. Want is the key word, not need. In the spirit of not spending any dollar bills on fashion, you’ll be seeing some older items and things that I’ve worn before because lets be honest, most of the time I’m in PJ pants and a v-neck tee. I could use some help too, ladies! Like if you could all avoid posting super cute pictures on social media so I’m not tempted, that’d be totally wonderful. Kidding. Kind of.
My Prayer Request.
Last Thursday I posted on Insta {follow me @amidwesternmix :)} that I could use prayers, good vibes, lot of positive energy, etc. sent my way because I had a big appointment on Friday. To be as transparent as possible, that appointment was with a fertility doctor that I’ve been seeing since last December. Long story short, Kyle and I have been trying/wishing/hoping/praying for a little baby for a while. Like closing in on 2 years while. We’ve done every test under the moon only to be told we’re ‘normal.’ In February we were presented with 3 options, none of which we loved and each of which was even more overwhelming than the other. We chose to give it another 6 months. Last Wednesday came and yet again, not pregnant. So into the fertility clinic I went on Friday and got my first official prescription. I’m currently on the 3rd day of 100mg of Clomid {experiencing some wicked headaches & massive waves of nausea} and next weekend get the fun task of injecting myself with Ovedril. Yes, I’m going to stab myself in the stomach with a needle, but we’re praying that tiny poke leads us further down the path we’ve been on for so many months! God is in control. I know that. Kyle knows that. But it’s a lot easier to say or type ‘God IS in control’ than to always FEEL that. I’m trying to trust in His plans but every time I see the joy in new parents’ faces, see my nephew, or see a little bundle of joy on social media, I can’t help but feel like we’re missing out.
Please, please do not read this as a woe-is-me story or like I’m trying to strum up pity; that is absolutely not why I’m sharing. My goal with this blog was to always be as real, authentic and honest as possible. I meant those things to ring true to what I wear, how I style outfits, etc. but I also want to show that life isn’t always as pretty as a blue midi dress and a cute, pink necklace. If you’re the praying type, I’m currently asking for 3 kinds of prayer: strength, understanding and peace. If you’re not the praying type, I’ll just as gladly accept all of the love & light you can send towards Omaha. And if you’re struggling with infertility or have in the past, I’d LOVE to hear how you are or have coped or to offer you some hope too! <3
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Dress (similar here & here) / Booties / Mini Bag / Necklace / Sunglasses
First, love the dress! The color is beautiful and I definitely get what you mean. Second, I NEED to make myself have a month like that. The idea of giving up shopping for a month shouldn’t make me feel as anxious as it does! Third, praying for you girl. I can only imagine the heartache that comes with a process like that. I have seen friends tackle it, and the joy they feel (be it years later) is so all encompassing, that you know the Lord had his hand in it throughout. Praying for your hearts and your hopes!
Emily
http://darlingdearestblog.com
Love this dress, especially with those booties! I am definitely keeping you and your husband in my thoughts! Just keep thinking positive thoughts!
xo Jessica
http://www.whatsfordinneresq.com
Brayden is a result of Clomid and I will have to do it again when we want baby #2 to come along. I did not have to do the shots though. Praying for you and Kyle for success. Message me if you have any questions about my process of it it!! I’m more than willing to share!!
Kristin, I adore you. You have the best attitude on life and just sprinkle joy wherever you go. I wanted to let you know that we are praying with you and that you are amazing!! None of this is easy, but I know you are going to make an incredible mom one day!! Love the look to my babe!!! XO
Love this dress on you babe! Leith is amazing but I only buy their stuff on sale! Lol. I should take a month off shopping too but that probably won’t happen. And I OFCOURSE will keep you and Kyle in my prayers. It is in God’s control and he has the best plan for you. I know you would be such an amazing mama so you know I’m praying you get pregnant! Stay positive babe! Xo
Looking gorgeous! This dress looks so comfy! Maybe I should commit to the no shopping in August too… I’m sad the #nsale is over, but my wallet is definitely happy!
Xo, Hales | http://www.sincerelyhales.com
Damn I LOVE the no shopping in August one. That is such a good idea to just cut yourself off for a specific period of time. As always – an amazing post my love.
xxo
Krista
http://www.hundredblog.com
This dress definitely looks like it was made for you!! You look absolutely gorgeous in this style and color. I also want to say thank you for being so real about such a difficult subject. My mom had many infertility issues and went through IVF with my two youngest siblings, so the struggle and emotion roller coaster you’re on is very familiar to me. Praying for peace for you and your husband and a little bundle!
Meaghan xx
Such a perfect color on you and I love the booties!! What a perfect transition outfit!
xo, Roselyn
http://www.thestylelynnkind.com
What an adorable look for summer. I love loose, easy dresses and I just discovered the midi length this summer – it’s perfect. Wishing you all the best on your fertility journey – I’m sure it’s not easy.
Lauren
http://www.anexplorersheart.com
Kristin, thank you for sharing the reality of your world right now. Sending big hugs and prayers to you and your hubby. Like you said, it’s in God’s hands but I will pray that God sends a miracle your way ASAP!
Love the dress and the necklace. You look beautiful! xoxo
You are far to sweet of a soul and God is good, you guys will be blessed! Don’t give up and keep your eye on the prize 🙂 lots of prayers your guys way!!
I was wondering if it was baby-related…I wish the news were different for you but there’s always a reason and there’s always a season. Your season is coming! I really am inspired by your positivity and honesty through it all! Love your look, as always! Lots of love and prayers being sent your way!
Check out waiting for baby bird on Facebook. I just love all of her posts! Also, you should have a closet sale for all of us – clean out the old and make a few dollars to spend on new. I’m sure all of your followers would love to help take some of your items off your hands!! Sending love & prayers & good vives & well wishes & positivity from Western Nebraska!!
Sending you SO much love! I know it’s not easy to share these things on the big ole World Wide Web! I think pregnancy is something that people always just assume happens easily for everyone right when they want it. If only it were that easy. I know when it does happen for you you’re going to be a SuperMom for sure. Thinking of you lots <3
Xo
Jess
http://www.fashionablyfitjess.com
Sending you love and prayers! You are exactly right, He does have a plan and will present it when it’s time. You are such a special person, I k ow whatever it is, it’s great!
If only I could fit into your adorable clothes, I would gladly help you make room in your closet. Always praying for you, one of my best and dearest friends! ? Luvs OXOX
Sending so many prayers to you and your husband! I too am going through this journey and did hormones and everything for two years I finally just gave in and am taking it slow and it’s been so much less stress trust me it’s a lot I know but stay in there! God has a plan
Kristin, I wish I could give you a big hug and take you to your favorite coffee shop. I know how much you love your coffee. 😉 I am absolutely praying for you and your hubby. God is in control and knows your desires. I’m always here for you if you ever want to chat and vent!! I know this pain all to well so I get it! Clomid can be rough. Remember to give yourself grace and rest!
Xox
Candice
http://www.candicestubblefield.com
Love your post as always sissy. Prayers, love, and positive vibes sent to you guys daily!!! ??❤️
You are continually in my prayers love; God definitely has a road planned for the two of you and it’s going to head somewhere beautiful. I so need to join you on the no shopping August! That darn #NSale. Hugs, Kait
http://www.makeminemaroon.com
My comment seemed to have disappeared!! Whaaa, so I am trying again!! Anyways, I just wish I could give you a big hug and take you to your favorite coffee shop! I know how much you love your coffee, girl! :)) I am praying for you and your hubby! Clomid can be rough but just remember to give yourself grace and to rest! I am always here for you if you ever need a chat or vent!!
XOX
Candice
http://www.candicestubblefield.com
Wishing you a million blessings during your pregnancy journey! I always say people get pregnant when they least expect it or want it, yet when people try and try they are always struggling. Praying so hard for you babe! Stay strong!
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So, I felt every bit of trying/wishing/hoping/praying you felt writing this post!! It took my husband and I over a year to get pregnant with our first babe and each and every month, it was heartache after heartache. I remember hearing “it’ll happen when it’s supposed to happen” or “just be patient, your body can’t be stressed” or “stop taking tests and peeing on sticks” and hating every last word of “advice”. I won’t give you any of those words, just stick close to your husband, you two need each other more than anything else!! It WILL happen but the road there is emotional. BUT, worth every single second when it does happen!!! Sending SO MANY hugs your way!!
xoxo
Kristin! First of all, you look absolutely gorgeous… I completely agree… So effortless and comfortable, and I love how you styled this little number! Secondly and most importantly, know that I WILL be praying for you <3. My husband and I have also been going through the same for five years with the same "unexplained" medical results; and not to disclose too much here, but I want to urge you – from the bottom of my heart – to hang in there. I will be SO worth it and there is always hope… God can move mountains… He is our creator, He is always with you (even in dark moments where it may not feel as such) and He has a beautiful plan for you that you cannot possibly imagine. I believe it WILL happen for you, according to His perfect timing, just as it is meant to be. I know you know that, but try to find peace and strength and patience in that fact. If you ever want to chat, I know how lonely these things can be – feel free to email me and we can connect <3 heather@alittlecasual.com . The biggest hug to you… and you are officially on my prayer list as of now :).
X,
Heather
http://www.alittlecasual.com
This looks like the softest dress ever! I love how you styled it with the light shade of leather, and the pop of color!! you are rockin the heck out of this summer girl!
So great! I love the necklace, shoes and bag. Your topknot is perfect!